It may seem easy for some guys to just jump onto the very first sign they see, and reconcile. But for you it has been the complete opposite; the signals appear confusing and you are not sure how to react.
The scarcity of relevant information makes it almost impossible to decipher. After some digging fortunately, I gained some useful information but, I don’t know how it’s going to help you. So I hope you don’t mind a few minutes of reading because in the next paragraphs you’ll be shown a few examples of signs, plus appropriate action to take.
If one of the secret of reconciliation is to act accordingly to seemingly uncertain situation, then it is important for you to recognize the signs. Some you may have experienced, while others you may encounter at some point later but the most important thing for you is to have the ability to act accordingly.
In a straight forward no particular order, here are 7 of the common signals you can expect to encounter.
1) Missed calls,
2) Phone calls,
5) Social networking account,
6) Sending postcards/letters
As you can see these are tools of indirect communication often use as the opening move to reconnect and your ex-wife might as well use it.
Noticed that excluding the first tool, the rest are either verbally or written communication. As mentioned earlier, some guys jump on the very first sign they see and managed to reconcile.
However, if you have forgotten I would like to remind you that we live in a world of uncertainties… and because of that no one can ever guarantee you of the same result each time.
In fact, anyone who assures you, their credibility should be questioned because according to experts, most women don’t often come directly with their desires or intentions upfront. Therefore, it is a good idea for you not to propose right away because these tools don’t really tell the whole story.
Distinguishing the signs
You see, your ex-wife could probably face a post-divorce misfortune. Perhaps, her post- divorce ventures may not go as planned. As a result, it gives her a temporary feeling of missing you prompting her to re-establish connection, which is why it’s important for you to have perseverance and not push yourself into getting back together.
Resolving this issue you need to take a little step further. Now, instead of diving head first into reconciliation which may be disastrous, I think it’s a good idea if you test the water to find out how deep it is before you take the plunge.
You’ve got to find out what prompted her to resume talking because most women tend to speak indirectly and expect guys to understand them, and this often creates confusion subsequently thoughtless-decision making for most guys. Once you have the appropriate gears, know how to swim the tides, then I think it’s a lot safer to salvage your relationship, metaphorically speaking.
But beware, any direct inquiries from you might turn against you, so play your cards right.
You may think it’s a lot of work at first, but believe me it’s worth an effort. If you have patience, you will avoid acting rashly thus you will have a better chance at getting back together later.
Recognize this! You too can use these indirect communication tools to reestablish communication with your ex-wife if you are not sure how she would respond to you.