When you are the center of attention, everyone is looking at you, and you are the most attractive person in the room. The center of attention always gets the glory at the end of the night. More opportunities for success come their way. The center of attention is even more likely to get picked for the better job, simply because other people notice them, and because well — they are the center of attention!
Did you ever go to a supermarket that had shelves which were completely bare? You – like most people – probably did not want to buy from that supermarket. As you look at the scarce products on the shelves, it’s almost like they are somehow begging you to buy them.
Being the center of attention at a party is similar to a supermarket situation. The more you seem to beg other people to notice you, the less attention you get. Likewise the more confident you seem to be, the more you will find people who will be attracted to you.
The center of attention communicates that they have high status — they do this by being very confident. People who are the center of attention know how to unlock superhuman confidence so that people immediately shift into “spectator” mode. Once you have the confidence to bust into any social scene and dominate the room, people give you all of their attention and approval. On my blog, I teach instant confidence boosting methods to steal the spotlight in any situation.
Being more confident so that you can be the life of the party means that you turn your volume way up! Speak much louder. In any given social situation, you will find that the center of the attention is always speaking much louder than the other people in the group. Speaking louder is one of the subtle cues that let other people know that you are the dominant person in the social group.
Confident body language is loose, and spread out. When you move, you move with certainty and conviction. Move in a way that is almost forceful.
Here’s a tip to seem like you have confidence even if you have little: Dress in a way that only a confident person would dress. Sometimes this might mean dressing a bit boldly. One time I went to a party dressed in a red blazer with my bare chest open. Girls were eyeballing me for the whole night.
If you want to be the life of the party, but you are not very confident, don’t worry, I teach how to skyrocket your self confidence on my blog. Click the link and I will show how to build extreme confidence so that you can be the center of attention for free.
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